Pastors Are Shepherds, Not Superheroes

Being a pastor is no easy calling. Behind the Sunday sermon and the church smiles are long hours, heavy expectations and spiritual battles few outside ministry could imagine. Here are a few of the primary challenges pastors face.

1. The Investment of the Weekly Sermon

Each Sunday message isn’t just a few thoughts thrown together the night before. Preaching a sermon every week is like writing a 10-page term paper on divine truth, and then delivering it with clarity, conviction and passion before a room full of listeners who will likely dissect every word over lunch. It takes deep study, prayer and creativity week after week. That’s an enormous spiritual and emotional load to bear.

2. The Weight of Shepherding Souls

Pastoring means walking alongside people in all seasons—people who are hurting, angry, anxious or tangled in sin. Many are struggling with their marriages, their children or their faith. Pastors are expected to be equal parts preacher, counselor and comforter, available at a moment’s notice for anyone who calls. And while pastors often do it joyfully, the weight of caring for others’ souls can quietly drain their own.

3. The Pressure of Endless Expectations

On top of preaching and shepherding, pastors are expected to lead like CEOs—managing staff, shaping vision, approving budgets and handling personnel issues. Add to that elders’ meetings, deacons’ meetings, staff meetings, discipleship groups, small groups, potlucks, funerals, weddings and counseling sessions, and it’s no wonder so many pastors feel overwhelmed or burn out altogether.

A Call for Grace and Prayer

Maybe it’s time we change the narrative. Expect your pastor to be a shepherd, not a superhero. Don’t demand their presence at every event or their attention at every moment. And please, never ask, “So what do you do all week?”

I know the pressures firsthand. I co-planted and pastored a church for a decade. The calling is sacred, but the weight is immense.

Your pastor doesn’t need more criticism or unrealistic expectations. Instead they need prayer, encouragement and grace. Take a moment this week to write a note, say a kind word, or simply tell them “I appreciate you.”

You might be surprised how much that one act of gratitude refreshes the heart of the one who faithfully shepherds yours.

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This article originally appeared on GregStier.org and is reposted here by permission.

Greg Stier
Greg Stierhttp://Dare2Share.org

Greg Stier is the founder of Dare 2 Share, and has published over 20 books, including Radical Like Jesus: 21 Challenges to Live a Revolutionary Life (Tyndale).

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