“How is your prayer life?” I recently asked a fellow pastor. I could tell by the hesitation in his voice that his spiritual discipline was suffering. In a year that has been challenging for all leaders, it is not surprising that external pressures can negatively impact one’s connection with God. So, how do you revitalize your prayer life when the spiritual well runs dry?
As I shared during that conversation, it is time for leaders to prime the pump and renourish their spirits by following four necessary steps. While we are often taught from childhood to pray before meals or at bedtime, simply going through the motions causes us to lose sight of the true intention. Praying with a purpose keeps the main thing the main thing: maintaining an open, daily line of communication with the Creator.
Pray with a Purpose
Effective prayer focuses on God’s character rather than just the list of needs being presented. Each petition should be directed in a way that honors Him and invites His divine action. Indeed, the significance of the Lord’s Prayer highlights this, serving as a foundational model for holy communion. Understanding prayer as a gateway to evangelism can further reframe our perspective on its vital importance in leadership.
Pray with Passion
How many times have you prayed and fell asleep? How many times have you rushed through prayer so you could eat? If you are honest, it has probably happened more than you want to acknowledge. God has convicted me over the last year if I am going to pray, I need to do it with passion. Praying with passion does not mean you have to scream and shout, but it does mean you have to dedicate your heart, mind, body, and soul to him and not be distracted by what is happening around you. Sometimes it takes me three to five minutes to calm my mind before I can truly focus on God and the needs I am petitioning him with. I have concluded that I do not want to pray for praying’s sake; I want to commune with God by speaking and listening to him, and if that takes an extra five minutes to clear my mind to become a passionate prayer warrior, I am willing to do that.
Pray with People
I love praying alone, there is something special about getting alone with God, but I am learning that there are times I need others to pray for me and with me. When your spiritual well is running dry, it is great to pray with other people who have the spiritual maturity and trust to help you overcome the obstacles before you. As you pray with other people, you are seeing modeled before you a prayer position that will encourage your spirit and effectively invite your soul to take in their prayer posture and renourish what is empty in you. The most effective prayer times have been where I have submitted in humility for a group of guys to gather around me and prayed over me by allowing the spirit to refill my soul by the pouring out of their prayers.
Pray Over the Problem
The word release has been a recent prayer of mine. It is giving the problem or burden over to God and asking him to take it from me. Too many people are carrying around issues and responsibilities that are not meant for them, but they cannot release them and give them to God. One of the most effective ways to prime the spiritual pump is to release whatever is holding you back to living a spirit-filled life over to God. Sometimes I walk around my house when I am alone and shout, “I release it God! I release it God!” I know that may sound hokey, but I am verbally doing what I am asking in my prayer life, and that is praying over the problem and then giving it to God. For me, it is an action step to what my heart has already done in my spirit.
Whatever you are facing today is not a surprise to God. Your spiritual health is just as important as the health of your parishioner. Do not be so quick to dismiss the emptiness that you are feeling in your spiritual walk. It is okay to ask for others to pray for you, with you, and encourage you. It is okay to be vulnerable to God and to speak with him through a broken lens. The only way to refill your spiritual life is to reprime the spiritual pump in your own life by letting go and allowing God to work, and that starts by praying.