“Theology should inform ministry, but if it limits whom you minster to, then you have the wrong theology. Just ask Jesus.”
Imagine a world where people were skeptical of what we believed, but envious of how well we treated one another, and shocked at how well we treated them! That’s what the church is about. We can maintain our identity while looking for opportunities to include everyone in our sense of community. But we need to understand how to host outsiders well in our environments.
Let’s focus on that idea of “hosting” for a moment. As our culture dechurches, will we be hosting those outside of Christianity more? If so, how do we grow in our skills to host?
Absolutely! We will be hosting more, in many different contexts. Pastors, if you want outsiders to be in your audience, they need to know that you know that they’re there.
Welcoming non-Christians has been a distinctive of our ministry for many years. I’ve talked about the progression of “foyer → living room → kitchen” for some time. Think of hosting in your church like you host in your house: Guests come into the foyer, which is designed to welcome. Then, into the living room, which is for more formal conversation and socializing. But the kitchen? That is where life really happens.
When you host people in your home, you don’t abandon your values or what you believe, but you also don’t ignore them. You don’t make them do all the work of finding their way around your house. You spend extra energy on them. You don’t abandon them. I think every church has to embrace hosting others to some extent—the question is, “Who are you hosting?” Today’s reality is that we are hosting unbelievers, skeptics and post-Christian people all the time. We can’t change our beliefs or convictions, but we can certainly work to host them well in our environments.
What’s the first step to doing that well?
Examine our assumptions. We all know that assumptions are tricky things. They inform our decisions, but we often don’t realize how, because we don’t take the time to think through them. Church leaders need to give up three assumptions when it comes to preaching to or engaging with the dechurched.
First, we still preach like we assume that people view Scripture as authoritative. They do not. Now, whenever I say that, I get in trouble. People hear me saying that Scripture isn’t authoritative. I’m not saying that!
I’m simply acknowledging a fact: Many people still respect the Bible but no longer consider it authoritative. Assuming it’s an authority for their life will be a nonstarter. But once we dispense with that assumption, we can step back to see that there are plenty of places to get traction in minds and hearts. In the old days, people really only heard about the Bible in church. But now, because we have so much access to information, it’s foolish to assume that a preacher’s statements about the Bible are going to be the only thing shaping someone’s understanding of it.
For example, Bart Ehrman, the agnostic biblical scholar, has become a familiar cultural face. He’s been on late-night TV with Stephen Colbert—primetime, millennial viewing—to talk about his book Jesus Before the Gospels. Here’s a conversation about the Bible and Jesus, and of course his whole pitch is that the Gospels can’t be trusted as historical documents. In the old days there were never those kinds of questions in the broader culture.
We also have to quit assuming that “they” are “out there.” “Assume they’re in the room” has become my mantra. I was at a funeral recently at a large church. As we drove out, there were signs that said, “You are now entering the mission field.” That’s completely false, and has been for a long time—because “they” are present at and watching our church gatherings constantly. They are in your church, with you, with their questions, their doubts, their conflicts between the Bible and science, all of it. They are visiting, curious, listening to your podcast, checking you out online. Assuming that we’re the team “in here” getting ready to go “out there” and do ministry isn’t in touch with today’s reality. Assume they are in the room.
The third assumption is that a person has to believe before they follow. Nothing could be clearer in the New Testament, particularly in the Gospels. Jesus invited people to follow before they believed. In our messaging, are we inviting people who are outsiders to follow?
Everybody can take a step to follow Jesus. I’m not offended when I have people tell me that I’m a great motivational speaker and that they just “filter out the Jesus stuff.” I can’t make people fall in love with Jesus, but if they keep coming, I’ll keep setting up the dates. We’ll keep the rungs low on the ladder and encourage them to take the baby steps of following him. Follow precedes believe.
Let’s return to the point you’ve recently taken flak on—how we use the Bible in our preaching. What is the faithful path forward for preachers who are speaking to listeners who doubt the Bible’s authority?
Not to change what we believe, but how we communicate. Once upon a time, there was a version of our faith that was rooted in an event, not the record of the event. The record of the resurrection followed the event of the resurrection by years. Christianity grew like crazy before the Bible, as we know it, existed. Historically, what launched our movement was an event. I’m in no way discounting the Bible by saying that.
For more on Andy Stanley’s approach to the Bible, read his article, “Why ‘The Bible Says So’ Is Not Enough Anymore.”
In the old days, when pretty much everyone in culture respected the Bible and saw it as authoritative, this discussion wasn’t that important. But in the Information Age, when we can’t count on scriptural authority being accepted by our culture, we need to return to what we did during the first, second and third centuries—an apologetic that pointed back to the event. Think of Paul in 1 Corinthians 15. He says that if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ is not risen, and our preaching—which means our religion, our faith, this whole thing—is in vain. It’s all pointless without the event of the resurrection.
The resurrection as a real event is everything. It’s where we get traction today. I believe it’s the most defensible event associated with Christianity. And coincidentally, it’s the most important event. I think we need to stop fighting about so many other things and simply stand upon the resurrection. Why? Because in that event, our faith stands.
When I talk about this with non-Christians or people reconsidering faith, this makes sense to them. When I talk about it with educated Christians, for some reason it makes many of them nervous. While I own my own ambiguity on this point in the past, and don’t claim to be great at talking about it, I’m still so convinced that this is a vital point for us to recover for our outreach.
Once you have traction, it’s not necessarily that complicated to move forward. I highlight that following Jesus has made my life better and has made me better at life. I’m convinced that’s true for anyone. That’s the introduction—come and follow. Forgive, and your life will be better because of it. Let go of bitterness and submit to others—your life will be better. We can go on and on.
Imagine if everyone in the U.S. decided to put others ahead of themselves. Our culture would change. Following Jesus makes lives, nations, the world better. That in itself can’t convince someone that Jesus is the Son of God, but it does get their attention. Where to go from there? Back to our belief in the power and historical reality of the resurrection. “Come and follow.”