9 Obstacles to gospel belief: How Family and Friends Hear the Good News

Southeastern Seminary, where I teach, is emphasizing “Who’s Your One” this semester. Our administration, faculty, staff, and students are committed to praying for and sharing the gospel with at least one person over the coming months. Based on my experience sharing Christ with family and friends, I have identified several key obstacles to gospel belief that people often face.

1. They have never truly heard the gospel. The more I speak with people across North America, the more I realize this reality. Even in the shadows of our church buildings, there are many individuals who have never been presented with the clear truth of the message.

2. They struggle to understand the Bible. For those willing to read Scripture, the content is often unfamiliar and intellectually challenging. If genuine believers occasionally wrestle with interpreting the Bible, it should not surprise us that non-believers face the same difficult battle.

3. They fail to recognize their lostness. “I treat people well, and I try to help my neighbors,” they say. “Let me tell you some of the good things I’ve been doing.” “I don’t do anything that’s just evil.” Folks who see no need for forgiveness seldom seek it.

4. They see the gospel as too good to be true. The story of the gospel really is quite astounding. That the one and only creator God would forgive our sins, make us whole, place us in His family, and indwell us is hard to fathom, especially if the story is new.

5. They see hypocrisy in the church. “I don’t expect people to be perfect,” a friend told me, “but if _______ represents what a Christian is, I don’t want to be a part.” We may defend the church all we want, but we must not forget that watching unbelievers see the reality in our lives.

6. They hear other messages more loudly. Even if a non-believer hears three one-hour Christian sermons per week (which seldom happens), he still hears dozens of hours of other messages throughout the week—and the gospel gets clouded in the process.

7. They’re enjoying their sin. Sin can be fun (at least for a while), and some of the people I know are having a good time. Following Christ, they assume, would cost them too much fun.

8. They believe time is on their side. Some of my older family and friends are now more willing to talk about eternal matters, but those who are younger have been more interested in delaying any consideration of Christianity. No urgency drives them to consider life and death matters now.

9. They cannot understand the preaching. A family member told me, “I like hearing _______ preach, but I don’t really understand him.” The Spirit of God helps us to understand the Word; however, we who preach the Word are not there to impress but to communicate the life-giving message of the gospel. Clarity is a must.

I suppose there are few new findings here, but I needed this reminder. Obstacles to the gospel have not changed much, at least in my experience.

What other obstacles have you found?

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Chuck Lawless is dean and vice president of graduate studies and ministry centers at Southeastern Seminary in Wake Forest, North Carolina, and global theological education consultant for the International Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention.

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