If I Could Do One Thing Differently …

If you could go back and do one thing differently in the early days of your ministry, what would it be?

Worry less about what people thought. I tried to make a lot of people happy.
—Bob Coy, Calvary Chapel, Fort Lauderdale, Fla.

Ask the church to elect elders earlier to provide greater covering, accountability and guidance.
—Steve Stroope, LakePointe Church, Rockwall, Texas

Be clearer about the vision of the church. I often said it verbally from the pulpit, but I didn’t put it in writing.
—Don Wilson, Christ’s Church of the Valley, Peoria, Ariz.

Build deeper relationships with other pastors outside of my church.
—Troy Gramling, Potential Church, Cooper City, Fla.

Appreciate the people who were present during those tough years.
Kevin Myers, 12Stone Church, Lawrenceville, Ga.

Be more patient with people in the church, with other ministers and schools of thought.
Matt Chandler, The Village Church, Flower Mound, Texas

Take time to play; enjoy my family more.
Brian Tome, Crossroads, Cincinnati

Not be so dogmatic and blunt.
—Robert Emmitt, Community Bible Church, San Antonio, Texas

Make sure from the first day that I was apprenticing other campus pastors and church planters alongside me. It was nine years before we reproduced a campus or a church. That is pathetic!
Dave Ferguson, Community Christian Church, Chicago

James P. Long
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James P. Long was formerly the editor of Outreach magazine and the author of a number of books, including Why Is God Silent When We Need Him the Most?

How Much Tech Do You Actually Need?

Because you cannot do this alone, you are going to have to trust the right individuals who know more about tech than you do. Your calling is to shepherd. Do that.

Gene Appel: Do Less Ministry; Reach More People

None of the programs at our church were bad in and of themselves. The volume of it just prevented us from being focused on building relationships with those who are far from God. So, we had to do less ministry to reach more people. It sounds funny, but people had to be trained in how to do life with nonbelievers or people spiritually disinterested.

When Familiar Becomes Careless

God wants to be in a relationship with his people that’s not marked by fear but love. Not apprehension, but an appreciation of his great grace and compassion.